You are on my friends list, and so is the lady at the centre of this.
I don't know the full story, and don't pretend to, I don't even live in the same country
Yes your friends have the right to refuse entry to whoever they want, the other lady has the right to know her accusers that’s all.
I know what it is like to be accused of something bad, with the effects of the accusation being far reaching, and not being able to defend myself because its all hushed under the carpet, and the accusers remained anonymous. Its bad situation all round and the effects just snowball.
I just feel that if people want to complain and make accusations it should not be done anonymously.
I’m am sorry if you don’t agree with me but that’s how its looking from an outsiders point of view. I don’t have anything else to say and won’t make any further comments, but it just doesn’t seem fair at the moment.
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Date: 2010-05-08 04:58 pm (UTC)I don't know the full story, and don't pretend to, I don't even live in the same country
Yes your friends have the right to refuse entry to whoever they want, the other lady has the right to know her accusers that’s all.
I know what it is like to be accused of something bad, with the effects of the accusation being far reaching, and not being able to defend myself because its all hushed under the carpet, and the accusers remained anonymous. Its bad situation all round and the effects just snowball.
I just feel that if people want to complain and make accusations it should not be done anonymously.
I’m am sorry if you don’t agree with me but that’s how its looking from an outsiders point of view. I don’t have anything else to say and won’t make any further comments, but it just doesn’t seem fair at the moment.